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A long-running personal blog shared by two authors with completely different approaches to life. And a lot of large, beautiful photographs of dogs and nature and places we've traveled to. Rich in commentary and irreverant in style. 


We started blogging a long time ago. Our work hours never aligned with recommended psychotherapists and we needed to get our thoughts out. We are great friends, total opposites and long-time housemates. This was a way to communicate. With each other. With strangers. With consumer marketers. With sub-par meteorologists. With distant friends who wanted to see pictures of stuff we were up to.

This is the place. Our bucket of thoughts to share. You are welcome. 
(We realize that most of you are here for the dog pictures.)

What kind of a person attracts you? (Yenny)


Today’s Topic: What kind of a person attracts you?

Interesting timing for today’s topic because yesterday I found this article and I sent it to a few people I’ve had discussions with about friendships recently.  

Not about the actual people, but the quantity like this and this. It all started from this article in the Post. 

 I'm the token Asian friend for you guys.  

I'm the token Asian friend for you guys.  

Who has 100 friends?  For a long time I’ve had a spreadsheet of my friends that are divided up into groups of how much you will get when I win the lottery and at best including family, the list tops out at 70, without family, I can hit 50 on a good day. 

So, you ask, what gets you into Yenny’s Tier 1/Top of the Pyramid/Secret Inner Circle... wouldn’t you like to know?? 

Ok, I’ll give you a list of qualities of the people in my top tier in no particular order:
1) Responsible
2) Loyal
3) Funny
4) Likes Yenny 

One of those is most important.  I’m not going to tell you which one. 

 You is actually Me. :)

You is actually Me. :)

Also, some of you think you're in the Top Tier, but there are only 5 people in it.  Good luck.